hello, im 20 years old and im about 4-5 weeks pregnate not exactally sure. Me and this guy had unprotected sex and he came inside of me and now he is talking about that i should get a abortion or give it up for adopition he is 24, we both have stable jobs and are both going to school. he says either way he will support me being abortion, adoption, or keeping it he says he will still be here 100% but i know he dosnt want me to keep it but i dont know if i have the heart to get a abortion and i think that i couldnt do adoption especially after going threw the whole pregnancy, and its not like we are teenenagers he owns his own house and i have my appartment we would just have to make some adjustments with our budget and be ok but i feel completely pressured to get an aborton because he is saying that if we keep it we have to quit school and he will have to get another job and sell his house and move into my appartment. but really i think its him not wanting to accept his responisbilities he has gotten 5 other girls pregnate all of the girls either got abortions or gave it up for adoption. but at the same time i want to give my child the best and be 100% prepared for a baby financially and relationship wise.ugg i guess im just really confused of where to go form here i feel like if i keep it im holding him back form everything and basically trapping him but i dont think i have the heart to do somthing like that such as abortion or watch someone else raise my child any suggestions?