I hear from prospective adoptive parents pre-adoption that they feel that the expectant woman holds all the cards. I hear from birth mothers post adoption that they feel that adoptive parents hold all the cards. As uncomfortable as it may be to admit, there is some truth to both of these sides. So how do we cross the divide in a way that facilitates an ongoing relationship where the child can flourish. Because after all, that is what both sides should be focused onhow they can … [visit site to read more]

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